I Don T Want A Baby Shower

It gives me anxiety and knowing Im going through this alone and going to be doing it on my own when the baby comes really just makes me sad and depressed like I am now.

I don t want a baby shower. I dont want a baby shower. However for many women suffering through infertility miscarriage stillbirth and infantchild loss baby showers can be a source of deep pain anxiety and heartache. I have never seen men at a baby shower.

With my first I had a small intimate gathering in my hometown held around Thanksgiving. Most people see these as joyous occasions and they are. I dont want you to regret not having a baby shower my sister-in-law told me.

Discussion in Pregnancy - Third Trimester started by N1kki Jan 22 2011. I promised that I wouldnt. It makes be so uncomfortable and sends my anxiety through the roof.

At the same time none of that is enough to change the deep-seated disdain I feel towards baby showers. I did the whole wedding thing for my family because they really wanted it so i sucked it up and had all the bridal showers and parties. I hate being the center of attention.

I just dont feel that a baby shower is necessary in that case because they can give me gifts without the whole party and all of that. Itsless formal than a shower men have fun too theres beer lol. Totally dont need to have a shower if you dont want one.

GettingABitDesperateNow Thu 26-Sep-19 161438. I didnt want a shower because the thought of being the center of attention and having people ask questions about the baby would have been extremely emotional for me. My sister is also saying i should have one and is making me feel really bad for not wanting one.